Dating a shy insecure man
As I mentioned earlier, a few girls may have the courage to initiate conversation with you but most won’t.You have to be aware of what a girl may be trying to do in order to get your attention so that you can respond.I felt the same way too and decided to spend less time with my friends. It was more like he was concerned about me and cared for me.And then, it was the same with my job and with the amount of time I spent in office and how much I spend on shopping. But he always seemed hurt and pained when I went out without him. No matter what I did, unless I had his approval, he was always upset by something or the other. Nothing could ever please him, and he always had a way of pointing flaws in the things I did.At first, he may be quiet and always ready to give you advice when you need it.But as the months start to roll by, you’d see that the advice would start to turn into sulking commands and manipulative pleas to arm twist you into doing what he wants.She has made that all important first step but the shy guy isn’t as engaging as she would have hoped. She loses her sense of curiosity and interest and leaves the shy guy be. They would try to send signals his way in the hope that he gets them and makes a move.
Many of them don’t like sensing insecurity in a guy.I tried changing myself for him so he could be proud of me. I was in this relationship for almost three years before we had to go our own ways for good.[Read: Why we end up falling out of love in a relationship] And a few relationships later, I met another great guy.The funniest part of all this is that most women don’t even know they’re actually in a relationship with an insecure man!Insecure men and their woes Insecure men can come off as one of the most sensitive and nicest men you’ve ever met.
Acknowledging the fact that you’re dating an insecure man is never easy.