How do men feel about dating an older woman
Old guys aren't my thing, but every time I ask my 30-something boyfriend to talk seriously about our future or shuffle through his apartment that has empty pizza boxes stacked on the dining room table, I can see the advantages of having had someone else remove the training wheels. It's exhausting."Megan can actually date her attraction to silver foxes back to childhood and a certain ex-President from the late 1980s/early 1990s: "I think this is all George H. In middle school we had an assignment to write a letter to a famous person. The rest of my sixth grade class felt this way about Donnie Wahlberg.Megan dates older men because, as she says, they are men."It's not for everyone but I prefer to be with a man that has already conquered his world and wants to enjoy the rest of his life," she told me. Donnie seemed like a loose cannon, much too unpredictable."They can smell me a mile away," she told me after she chatted with him about restaurants, real estate, his children, and his grandchildren, while the rest of us kids enjoyed a game of floating beer pong in the pool. "I don't want you to get hurt, dear," she whispered with reserved aplomb.
This taboo makes some of my clients feel shameful about their age preferences.You don’t have to look far to see most men find women to be at their most attractive in their 20’s.On the other hand, many women are most attracted to men in their 30’s, 40’s, and even 50’s.And they generally have more self-confidence as they know who they are. — When it comes to this subject, older men are painted as shallow horndogs manipulating younger women. But what about all the couples who fall into this category (including my parents) who are in love or married for decades? Are you saying these women are coerced and manipulated into being with these men?Combine women’s desire for a strong, mature man and men’s desire for a young, healthy woman to bear children and it all makes sense. Attraction is an emotion that we can’t help but feel. These women are willingly and happily choosing these men.
Before I get attacked as somehow being sexist…look at the anecdotal evidence.